Do you support your pastor’s family? To many people’s surprise, the pastor’s family might be one of the most mistreated families in the church. The expectations of the pastor is that he/she ought to give, give, and give, and if there’s more to give, then squeeze him dry. The only thing pastor is expected to receive is a salary-paycheck, afterall, that’s what he’s paid to do, right? On top of that, the pastor’s spouse and kids are also expected to serve their hearts out too as a good example to the rest of the church, and also be under the microscope of the people full-time.
These are unrealistic expectations. A website article (read more: Ministry Matters) suggest some things you can do to show support to your pastor and his family. Here’s several:
1. Temper unrealistic expectations of the pastor’s family.
2. Make a pastoral support group a priority.
3. Support a sabbatical.
4. Protect your pastor’s sabbath day.
Do these look like something you or your church does to support your pastor?